Wednesday, June 13, 2007

The reason for being a Stay-at-home mother

I have talked to many SAHM mothers and found out the main reason for them to stay at home is Mother's Instinct. They wish to look after their children by themselves, especially in the early formative years.

For the mother whose monthly income less than S$2,500 in Singapore context, it makes more sense to be a SAHM.
Here explains-









MotherSalaryS$2,500
Children care per child*S$800
Office attire and dry cleanS$200
Eating outS$400
TransportationS$300
Home repair and housekeepingS$200
Hand phones and computers S$400
Total Expense :S$2,300

(*PAP childcare service will be much cheaper, however, many mothers still prefer otherwise. Hiring a foreign maid will not cost less.)



For a professional or graduate mother, the opportunity cost to give up their career for is higher. Yet, for many of them, the desire of being with children is stronger than the desire in advancing personal career. One of mothers told me this way: “God has chosen me to be the mother for my son, this is my first duty.” If there is God’s will for you to be a Full time mother, He will surely meet you all your needs in motherhood with grace and mercy.

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